Crying: The Natural and Cultural History of TearsThis provocative and indispensable book provides a natural and cultural history of our most mysterious and complex human function: our ability to shed tears. All humans, and only humans, weep. Tears are sometimes considered pleasurable, sometimes dangerous, mysterious, deceptive, or profound. Tears of happiness, tears of joy, the proud tears of a parent, tears of mourning, tears of laughter, tears of defeat --what do they have in common? Why is it that at times of victory, success, love, reunion, and celebration the outward signs of our emotions are identical to those of our most profound experiences of loss? Why We Cry looks at the many different ways people have understood weeping, from the earliest known representation of tears in the fourteenth century B.C. through the latest neurophysiological research. Despite our most common romantic assumptions, what this brilliant book tells us is that tears are never pure, they are never simple. |
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User Review - RajivC - LibraryThingI picked up this book from the library, and approached it with a lot of hope. However, while I enjoyed the many examples of tears that have littered the books of history, there was not too much about ... Read full review
Crying: the natural and cultural history of tears
User Review - Not Available - Book VerdictCrying from emotion is perhaps the only activity that is uniquely human, yet its meaning is complex, sometimes signifying weakness and deceit and other times sincerity and strength. Lutz (English ... Read full review
Contents
List of Illustrations | 13 |
Why Tears? | 17 |
Tears of Pleasure Tears of Grace and the Weeping Hero | 31 |
The Crying Body | 67 |
The Psychology of Tears | 115 |
Men and Women Infants and Children | 151 |
Cultures of Mourning | 193 |
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